Broken Relationship Help - Saving Your Relationship With 3 Easy Steps

It seems like in today's society relationships go from one extreme to another. Either no one bothers to work on their relationship and they let it just slip away, or they become obsessive and sometimes dangerous. Finding broken relationship help is easy. Following it, not so much.

Before you start trying to put your relationship back together this would be a good time to really, and honestly, decide if the relationship should really be saved. Let's face it, not all relationships should continue.

If you decide after careful soul searching that your relationship is worth saving than you can use the following 3 steps to help fix your love life and get your relationship back on track:

1) Be honest. Be brutally honest with yourself. This is the hardest thing you will do. It's not easy to admit to yourself that you were wrong. Whether you were wrong about the way you handled things in your relationship or you were wrong about the value of the relationship itself you have to take stock before you can move forward.

Once you've honestly evaluated your relationship and your part in the deterioration of it you can decide if you are ready and willing to make the changes needed to make the relationship work. Again, this is the time for brutal honesty. If you really don't think you care enough to work on fixing the problems, both yours personally and the relationship problems in general, than its' time to cut your losses and move on.

2) Talk. Honest communication seems to be so difficult for a lot of people today. That is one of the most important skills you can learn if you want to have a loving relationship. Remember though, it takes two. Even if you are capable of having an honest, open, and adult conversation, if your partner isn't than there is nothing you can do.

3) Be ready to sincerely apologize for your mistakes and your part in the deterioration of the relationship. The two of you have to be able to work together and that means accepting responsibility for your mistakes. If you or your partner is unable or unwilling to admit fault and apologize than the hurts and resentments will continue to mount and it will be very difficult to save your relationship.

By dedicating yourself to following this broken relationship help with your partner you have a very good chance of having the type of honest, respectful and loving relationship you really want. Just be sure that its' what your partner wants too.

Discover the Top 3 Things Women Need to Start Doing to Get More Dates and Become More Attractive

By Sara Chandler

Do wish there was some magic way you could just snap your fingers and you'd find out exactly what men really wanted? That would be great I am sure most women would do it in a heartbeat if they could. Unfortunately, there is no magic button like that in the world. This doesn't mean that you just need to give up though. In fact, I'd like to go ahead and share with you 3 simple things that you can change this week that will make you more attractive to the opposite sex, even when it seems like nothing else will work.

Dating Tip #1-

The first thing you need to do is become active in your lifestyle. Most men complain that women just like to sit around and talk on the phone or watch TV. They sometimes feel that it's difficult to find something in common with a lot of women because many women don't have a lot of interests. The more active someone is in their life the more attractive they become. We're all attracted to people that go out and do things versus that ones that sit home and watch TV all day. It's important for you to find out what you like to do and go out and do it. You need to show men that you're a busy woman that has a lot going on in your life. This will help you exude more confidence and ultimately become more attractive to men.

Dating Tip #2-

This tip is similar to what you read about in the first tip. Men and women alike both love someone who works out and is active. Of course the person you see jogging on the side of the road is going to be more attractive than the person that doesn't work out. Exercising has a list of benefits a mile long and it doesn't need any explaining here. The fact is men are more visual creatures and they're going to value a woman more that keeps herself in shape and looks nicely in her clothing.

Dating Tip #3-

The last thing you can quickly change is your outlook on life and the people around you. Nobody wants to be around a negative, sarcastic person. It's important that you try and be uplifting and make whoever you're around a better person. After all, that's what life is all about. The best way to do this is to feel good about yourself. If you don't feel good about yourself it's hard to positive towards other people. The way you can feel good about yourself is what I mentioned in the first tip, you need to go out and be active which will in turn create confidences. A more active, confident, happy you will ultimately create a better world for everyone, especially if you're trying to attract the opposite sex.

Best Ways to Flirt With a Guy - 7 Most Effective Tips to Hypnotize Him With Your Charms!

By Krista Hiles

You will find it easier to flirt with a guy if you know something about him. This is because you can use it to your advantage if you find that he is really your type. Conversation will flow easily and you will find plenty of opportunities to flirt with him and make him notice you. Get a load of these tactics that will make you simply irresistible.

Make him notice your hair, lips or legs
If you have got beautiful hair, sometimes all you need to do is toss your head and let him long to touch your silky, shiny hair. The same goes with your lips and legs. Making him notice your luscious lips by biting them, licking them or just plain smiling at him, will make him aware of you sexually. A glimpse of your long sexy legs will get things going.

Check him out and make him feel sexy
One way of flirting with him is to catch his eye and then let your eyes move down his body in a slow, maddeningly sexy way! Not only will he become aware that you are checking him out but the fact that you are will make him feel sexy and attractive too. He will find himself responding to that look.

Give him a sincere compliment
The thing about flirting is to make the other person feel good about themselves. This is easier said than done at times. All you have to do is be alert and look for something that is really good about him and what attracted you to him in the first place. You could compliment him and make him aware that you are being sincere and genuine. It works!

Brush against him softly
Wait for the right opportunity and get as close as possible to him, even if it is for a fleeting moment. Make sure he remembers the moment because you leant against him, brushed against him or touched him lightly on his arm or thigh! This brief contact can cause his heart to beat faster and he will get interested to know you better.

Keep giving him inviting looks and sexy smiles
As long as he thinks you are not going to reject him if he hits on you, the easier it will be for him to take the initiative and make a move. If you show him that you are approachable and smile invitingly at him, he will get more confident and will welcome your flirty behavior.

Ask him if he's going to be around!
If you have just met him and want to flirt with him, the best thing is to make him know in a subtle way that you enjoyed his company. If you go a step further and ask him leading questions that convince him that you want to see him again, he will be thrilled at all the attention and interest.

Be natural and bank on your charm
Don't overdo the flirting. Too much of blatant looks and smiles may make you look desperate. Be as natural as possible and bank on him falling for your vivacious personality and charm. This way you can be sure that when you flirt with him, he is falling for the real you.

6 Things You Shouldn't Do When Dating

By Alex Vasquez

There are many things that should go without saying with respect to dating etiquette, in general. What do I mean? Well there are some very common things that one should avoid when on a date, or even setting up a date. Common things that, people with common sense would know are wrong... What do I mean? I'm getting to it, sheesh! Common sense isn't all that common these days and certainly no place is more void of common sense than the arena of dating. I'm talking about both the guys and girls here, everyone.

So with that very vague opening paragraph let's move on to some specifics, which should be common sense. However, if you scratch your head at some of these wondering why they're bad then please slap yourself and save me some gas.

Using an Old Picture.

Okay. I was on a date off of Craigslist, this was the straw that broke the camel's back and I never dated anyone off that site agai.. Everything seemed to be going well on the conversation and personality front so I proceeded to ask for her pictures. Anyway, my date sent me an old picture of herself assuring me that's how she looked. She did not tell me it was an older pic. My ad, that I posted, did specifically ask for a recent picture, mind you. So when I got the picture I thought she looked nice and I was ready to meet this person... in person.

When we finally did meet I found a woman that looked like the gritty-road-hardened older sister of the person in the picture I received... This was not the case, however. No. It was my date! Dead front tooth and all. She was a lot bigger than her picture depicted and, frankly, the dead tooth was killing me. I couldn't look past it when she spoke.

It should go without saying that there was no magic that was going to happen with this "lady." I felt, firstly, that I wasn't attracted to her primarily and, secondary, I felt that I couldn't trust her either; as though she might make off with one of my kidneys... And I think she almost did. True story; she invited me back to your motel, where she was living, instructed me to lay on her bed where she turned on a massage bad. My butt received a hell of a good shock from that experience. Needless to say, I didn't stick around much longer.

Be honest and truthful about yourself and your appearances; save you and your would-be date some serious time.

Dragon Halitosis Breath.

This one is kinda bad; chronic bad breath. I know. Typically women discuss how they dated a guy whose breath, at best, could be described as a sulfurous spring. I'm no doctor, but halitosis or chronic bad breath tells me that you should seek professional help for your malady and not afflict said malady on guys you meet.

I dated a girl many years ago who was known in our circle as having 'Baker Breath.' It started innocently enough with us. We went to a movie and made out. Simple yes? Not quite. The first kiss was comparable to eating a chicken and basketball rubber glue sandwich. I felt like all the breath was sucked out of me; even punched in the stomach and losing your breath is more accurate. The smell of rubber glue is still vivid to this day, folks.

It didn't get better on our subsequent dates, either. Kissing was always a tenuous chore. One that required great temperament to complete. No to halitosis!

Now there was another girl I dated who didn't have halitosis, but we just had one awful make out session and it was enough to ruin her for me for good. This girl was, in my opinion, very, very beautiful... As it turns out an In-n-Out double grilled cheese sandwich is a bad thing to eat ahead of making out with someone, especially if there is no brushing and flossing or drinking of water immediately after. This was the one time I had a gag reflex while kissing a girl. I mean, this was bad. Imagine that you are making out with a salty stick of butter; a warm stick of salty butter to be more accurate. So I can only recommend that if you're going to kiss your date please I'd advise some level of dental maintenance after. This could simply be drinking water but could include brushing, flossing or rinsing with lava pumice.

Inviting Your Date to Hang Out With Your Friends on the First Date.

This is one scenario I'm hearing more about from guy friends of mine. One of the guys will meet a girl he's into and make it a point to hang out with her. Then the girl will invite her suitor out to hang with her and her friends. Not cool! There's no practical reason to do this. A girl might feel uncomfortable and she surrounds herself with her friends and expects the guy come hang with her. I went on a few dates with girls where they were not alone. In one case there was another girl that was present with my date and I hadn't been told about that. Immediately I got the vibe that this girl was not interested... It was a waste of my time, really. At that point my date could have called to cancel and I would have appreciated it. The time spent was just awkward, as was the conversation.

There have been instances where I've been invited out for drinks with a girl and her friends and I've only done so once. And it really didn't work so well. I didn't get to talk much to my date; certainly there was no vibe that we were on a date at all. Lastly and most obvious was that I had to compete with my date's friends for her attention. Lame.

I can't say that I follow the logic on this one. Firstly, when you meet your date for the first time it's about getting to know your date and then getting to know you. Secondly, your date asked you out because they want to hang out with YOU and get to know YOU better. Introducing your date to your sea of friends serves nothing more than to distract your date and give them, potentially, the wrong impression.

Having a Scythe in Your Garage.

You probably don't have one of these so this wouldn't apply to you. But I have a roommate that has one... Which means that I HAVE ONE, too... Um, yeah. There's not too many ways to explain that one away. The scythe, which is a costume prop, is situated against a surfboard. Is it an odd combination? Sure. It's about time I put a cover on that; I'm tired of freaking my dates out when I bring them back to my place. They think they're going to get hacked up!

Picking up a Telemarketer...

I'm sure there are people who have had better experiences dating a random telemarketer than I have... I used to hit on pretty much every telemarketer that called my residence. Why? One could make the argument that I'm kind of a jerk and I like irritating people. Similarly one could also make the point that I'm painfully lonely and need to be held...

I can only tell you that my date was a disaster when I struck gold and found a telemarketer who lived local to me. Ironically she worked for Greater Expectations; and I was quickly reminded of the Mad TV parody of this service. Folks. I'm not going to lie. This was an awful experience. As I was walking up to the restaurant I saw a, uh, "heroically" built woman of colossal stature. This was far more woman than a mere mortal man was meant to handle. I could have walked away at this point, but I didn't... Nope. I met my date, gave her a hug; rather attempted to.

We sat, talked and ate. Our conversation was decent, but we had nothing in common and I only wanted to leave. To her credit she did bilk me for a good meal and dessert so the joke was really on me.

Unfortunately the good times didn't stop there. You see, this telemarketer apparently isn't supposed to go on dates with the people she calls. So this turned into a two week-protracted process of me answering questions about this telemarketer and her motives... Well, I lied of course, but the telemarketer was calling me up to ensure I wasn't throwing her or her babies under the bus. Ugh. Yeah, this whole thing stopped being funny after that first mammoth hug.

Don't date telemarketers. It's not that funny.

Talking About Exes... A Lot.

Talking about your exes and how they all live in Texas is all well and good... if you're George Straight, that is...

The idea here is that your time on a date should be used to get to know someone, not trashing or romanticizing about your ex, regardless of how things ended. Nothing takes the wings from your new date like overtly talking about your ex... You don't form connections with your future soul mates if you can't let your past go. There's an appropriate time to talk about exes; the first date is not one of those times.

I can't tell you how many times I've been out to coffee with a girl and had to endure conversations about their exes and other men in their life. Now, this could be a mistake or a well planned strategy that your date employs to discourage you, if they're not into you. In situations like that I feel it's important to steer clear of such subjects as would-be suitors or exes. Engage your date on things that interest them or share some of your interests as this is your best chance to avoid being lumped in the friend boat.

Be respectful of your date and give them your attention. Or if you're not into your date then profess your love for someone else. Often. That works. Trust me.

The Take Away?

Um, I don't really know what you were hoping to get from this tragedy of a dating blog. The only nugget I can offer, that would help you avoid the above situation, is that a person needs to respect themselves and also they need to understand what they can and can't accept and deal with. Once a person decides what they won't accept the above is unlikely to happen... Unless you like chicks with chronic bad breath. Hehehe... Gross.

How to Win My Ex Girlfriend Back - 3 Magic Clues You Can Start Using Now By H. L. Archer

You are wondering how do I win my ex girlfriend back and right now you don't have a clue. You are sitting there like a hermit feeling sorry for yourself. Don't you realize there is whole new world out there full of women just waiting to meet you?

But you say, I don't want any other woman, I just want to win my ex girlfriend back. How do you know that you don't want any other woman if you haven't met them? What makes you so sure that your ex girlfriend is the only one for you? She dumped you didn't she? That should tell you that something wasn't right.

Women are nesters by nature and they don't just jump up and leave their nest unless there is a compelling reason. So if you really think that she is the one and only for you, here's what you need to do.

1. Get a date. You might think I'm crazy but trust me. By dating someone you will be doing two things. First, it will get your mind off your ex and give you some time to think about whether getting your ex back is the best move for you. Second it will give you someone to compare your ex to and the relationship you had with her.

2. What Went Wrong. By dating someone else you will have time to think about what went wrong in your former relationship. You can't fix something unless you know how it got broken. By figuring out what went wrong and what caused the relationship breakup, you won't be making the same mistakes again.

3. Take it slow. If you still feel that you must know how to win my ex girlfriend back by all means don't rush things or be pushy. Let things proceed at a natural pace. When she finds out that you are dating - and she will find out. (She might be keeping closer tabs on you than you think). This might be a wake up call for her and she will contact you. She might be anxious to return to her cozy little nest.